It is probably no surprise that sexting has been the latest and most massive trend in all age groups and all types of relationships. In the last ten years, it has proven to be of great benefit to both relationships as well as disengaging relations, too! Most people who are magical pros in this practice have started enjoying the power of it from the very beginning. However, if you are new to it, and want to learn the skill of seduction through message interaction from the easiest to pro tricks, this guide is the thing to go for!
How does it happen?
Some people have the wrong idea that sexting is just randomly throwing explicit movies with sexual content and phrases at somebody but, to be honest, it does not really work like that… This is why we have the term “sext session”. This is the period of time and actions from the point when you start sexting to the point where you are satisfied with the result.
How do I start then?
When it comes to the bold start, it is absolutely normal that not everybody would feel comfortable with it. It really depends on your character, first of all, your comfort with that specific person and, last but not least, it depends on your comfort with explicitly saying your desires and needs.
If you are more of a timid person and you are not feeling too comfy with the person on the other side, or you just do not know how to jump into the deep sea of sexuality from the very first phrase, then it is probably not the best idea to force yourself and probably your partner to type in the kinkiest and dirtiest messages.
If I am in that position, the best thing to go for is a regular flirtatious phrase such as “You looked stunning in that dress today!”, or if you want to go deeper, I would go for a phrase such as “I cannot get rid of the thought of what we did the last time!” This second one works perfectly if you are already in some kind of sexual relationship with that person!
Make it live!
Talking dirty, as I already mentioned, is not about throwing random kinky words just like that. It is about Structuring your speech and desires in a sentence which can have a psychological turning-on effect on the other person. In this sense, you have to make it feel like a live concert-LIVE AND VIVID. Use descriptions! Be detailed about your memories, desires, and needs! Vocalize them with PornOne porn videos, for example! Or you can even go for audio messages if this makes you feel more natural or genuine!
Make it a dialogue!
When you have already started the play, it is now your job to make sure your partner feels comfortable with it. You have to stimulate them the best possible way without forcing them to play with you. This sounds impossible, but it is not even hard, you just ask questions. In my personal regard, the three most productive ones are “What do you think about it?”, “What do you think of?” and “What do you usually fantasize about?
After you have reached that point of interest so that your partner replies, the next line should be, “Then…What can we do about it?” This for sure is a winner phrase, but if you can come up with something more genuine at this very moment, just go for it!
Play it weak!
This is a strategy that works best for women as we are the weak sex, but if you are a man or a strong independent woman, you can just play it out! You can always pretend to be the weak one. You can always go for something not very original, but excessively working, such as “It is just so cold here…Come warm me up…” or “I feel lonely, and I am on my own… I kind of feel scared, it is so silent in my whole place… Would you come to keep me safe?”
There is not even a single man on Earth who can deny the pleasing of an innocent, weak creature, especially if you play it out THAT weak and lonely! And it also works for women, too, as we are way too sensitive and deep in our nature we are the caring people!
Sexting is not everybody’s cup of tea. On the other hand, you can never know if you like it or not if you do not try it like a pro! Be the first to sext with these pro tips!