Injecting some extra fun into the bedroom will bring you and your partner closer as you experience new things and try different ways of making each other feel great. Whether you are looking for ways to get some passion back into your sex life with a long-term partner or trying to think of sexy ways to spice up an evening, there are always new pleasures yet to be explored. Creating a bedroom bucket list is a great way to think about what you want to try out under the sheets and open up a conversation about any fantasies you would like to explore, giving you some things to look forward to as you get kinky under the sheets.
- Experiment with sex toys
Being designed to please, experience new sensations that aren’t possible with your bodies alone so you can stimulate those hard-to-reach spots. Whether you’ve given them a go in the past or have never ventured into the world of sex toys, there’s endless fun to be had. If you’re not sure where to begin, start with simpler toys such as vibrators, cock rings, and dildos to experiment with the basics, and once you’re ready to divulge into the more kinky toys, look into double penetration toys, anal play, BDSM, or roleplay aids. Once you start experimenting with toys, you will never look back and can continually find new ways to switch up your sex life, finding different forms of pleasure to drive you and your partner crazy.
- Play a kinky game
Plan more fun ways to connect with your partner, spicing things up if you’ve found yourself using the same positions every time you have sex or find yourself with a lower sex drive. The more build-up you have, the more you will be able to not keep your hands off each other, so uniquely maximize foreplay and add a competitive element. Strip poker is a great place to start, gradually losing items of clothing one piece at a time. To drive them crazy, introduce sexy forfeits or rewards along the way to tease each other and build towards a big finish, making the night a definite one to remember.
- Switch up your location
Try out new locations around the house, such as the sofa, kitchen counters, or the shower, to make you try out new positions and get creative (regarding there’s nobody home!). Although we’re not here to get anyone arrested, having sex in a new place is a great way to get you out of your routine and add excitement. If you want to take your creativity one step further, head outdoors and find some hidden areas to get down and dirty in and switch up your scenery. Of course, keep it legal, but finding a secluded spot to park up at in your car can be a huge turn-on.