Some people that use Stripcamfun are also in relationships and we had a person who wanted us to talk about how to mend those relationships when it pertains to sex.
While it may be difficult to believe, sex is a difficult topic for couples. Regardless of how long the couple has been in a relationship, they struggle to talk about sex. This has nothing to do with talking dirty, it is more about what couples want in their relationships. Not everyone is turned off by sex. In fact, they are completely opposite, as the mere mention of sex turns them on. Whatever the case may be, talking about sex does not need to be strained. As long as they are open to the topic, the outcome will be in the favor of the couple, not just one partner, but both.
Be Open-Minded
A major mistake couples make when broaching the sex topic is being close-minded. Even if one partner is open-mind and the other close-minded, the topic will never be broached. In order for this to turn out in favor of the couple is for both partners to be open-minded.
Is it possible to transition from being closed-minded to open-minded? Absolutely, there is hope for people who are close-minded about sex-related topics. To make this transition, you or your partner must be willing to go through with it. If not, you may as well accept your partner’s closed-mindedness or throw in the relationship towel.
The first step is to be willing to embrace the unknown. Who knows, you may discover sex is not such a difficult topic to broach.
Be Gentle, Not Aggressive
It is believed, the lack of sexual relations can lead to aggression in males and some females. In the beginning, you may successfully ignore your aggression because it is only minor. However, your aggression will begin to surface over time. Before you know it, you will be exhibiting aggression toward, not only your partner but everyone you come into contact with.
By the time, your partner is ready to talk about sex, your aggression level will be out the roof. Now, you have your partner’s attention, you need to keep it. Being aggressive will not turn out in your favor. In fact, it will send your partner running in the opposite direction.
Be gentle with your partner, regardless of your aggression level. While it is always best to resolve your sexual issues way before your aggression is out of control, it is not always possible. If you are gentle, you may be able to convince your partner to participate in live cam sex.
It Is Not Always About You
Another mistake people make in long-time relationships is believing everything is about them. Just because your partner is not open to talking about sex, does not mean it is your fault. There could be underlying issues that your partner is dealing with alone.
Even if your partner agrees to sit down with you for a sex talk, the outcome may not be in your favor. As innocent as a sex joke maybe, this is not the time. If this is your first one-on-one sex conversation, you should expect anything to happen. This includes both positive and negative things because anything is possible.
Do not take everything your partner says personally. It may just be his/her way of dealing with their sexual frustration. However, if the couple wants this relationship to work, both partners will need to be willing to give.
Summary
It is also important to not rush to judgment. Just because you are not having regular sexual relationships, does not necessarily mean your partner is being unfaithful. There are plenty of factors that can cause someone to get turned off by sex. Health conditions, such as high blood pressure, erectile dysfunction, and diabetes are just a few examples.